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After a traumatic break up,
I really appreciated Susan’s
compassion. I am feeling better every day. Time is such
a great healer, and Susan is a real treasure.
I
appreciate her sensitive ear and thoughtful insights.
Her counsel was wise and very much appreciated—she is an
excellent Relationship Coach!
C.L. from Eugene |
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This is the first real "interest" I've had in a long
time! I’ve met some nice gals through Match.Com but none
that I wanted to really see again. Then I meet a woman
through Susan, and found someone that I'm very
interested in getting to know better! Think of the
money I could have saved!
R.T. from Tigard
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Susan’s coaching style displays a combination of
intellect and deep understanding of relationships. I
have learned to deeply dig into those inner aspects of
myself; that has come from our communications. Her own
experiences and sometimes twisted sense of humor make
her “very real,” extremely likeable and easy to talk
with. Susan, don't lose that twisted part—it is so much
you!
M.B., Attorney |
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I am currently very happy and dating a wonderful man!
Before Susan and I started Relationship Coaching, my
limited beliefs around my ability to attract the right
type of relationship were blocking my self confidence. I
also needed help putting an old relationship to rest. It
was hard work, but working through the exercises, having
Susan listen with focus and intuition, and then ask me
the right questions, I was able to identify and act on
my strengths and put a relationship plan into practice.
Then, as if by magic, a man appeared who was genuinely
interested in getting to know me! I know I was able to
attract him because I was finally allowing myself to
appreciate my many gifts. As a new couple, we are taking
things slowly, and I’m able to share in a way that is
very authentic and refreshing to me. All I can say is
coaching works! Thank you, Susan!
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| About Susan Feinstein,
Singles Relationship Coach |
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What I Offer
As a Licensed Singles Relationship Coach, and Founder of Perfect
Pairings for Conscious Singles in Oregon, I provide mid-life
singles in the Willamette Valley the resources that guide their
journey to reach their relationship goals. Through one-on-one
and group coaching, I empower my clients to recognize their
strengths and develop the momentum they need to create the
life they’ll love. I also provide informal events as an
additional resource for meeting people, making new friends,
and having fun in a non-stressful environment.
Professional Background
I offer my clients the experience of 36 years of teaching and
school administration. Although I’ve recently retired from
education, I am still passionate about providing education and
support. School did not prepare us for the world of
relationships and dating. I’ve worked in Las Vegas, San Diego
and the Willamette Valley (including Lebanon, Eugene,
Harrisburg and Salem), and I know that dating challenges are
universal; it doesn’t matter if you live in a big city or
small rural area.
I’m a graduate of the Relationship Coaching Institute’s
Conscious Dating for Singles program, the world's first and
largest international relationship coach training
organization. I am currently working with the Matchmaking
Institute located in New York City. I am committed in helping
people “my age” live fulfilling lives while continuing or
getting back into the dating world.
Personal Background
I was married and divorced twice before I was 30, and have
experienced a variety of long- and short-term relationships;
I’ve made some very interesting choices along the way! Lack of
self confidence, not enjoying the dating process, being lonely
and falling into date-to-mate scenarios became a lifestyle
pattern, and one that I’ve “consciously” changed as I’ve
become the architect of my own future.
I’ve tried on-line dating and matching organizations, but
something was missing for me, For most people, learning to
date intentionally and becoming conscious about your vision,
requirements, needs and wants greatly improves your success in
finding your perfect partner.
Today, my social life is full, rewarding, and in synch with
all the other aspects of my life. My creativity is
flourishing, my friendships are expanding, and yes, I’m dating
again! I enjoy listening to live music, dancing, creating art,
appreciating wine and microbrews, exploring the natural beauty
of Oregon, meeting new people and of course, building a
successful business that helps others! I support clients of
all sexual orientations. Part of my business philosophy is to
support businesses dedicated to sustainability and charities
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Below are some important reasons to use a Relationship Coach,
any ONE of which is compelling enough to get your very own
coach TODAY!
1. YOU VALUE
RELATIONSHIPS HIGHLY
You prioritize building fulfilling personal and professional
relationships. You realize that your success and quality of
life is directly connected to the quality of your
relationships.
2. YOU ARE
COMMITTED TO SUCCESS
You are serious and intentional about having a fulfilling life
partnership, family, business, and community.
3. YOU WANT
RESULTS
Working with a coach can move you farther and faster than you
can on your own.
4. YOU ARE
WILLING TO LEARN
You realize that you don't know what you don't know, and your
future success may depend upon access to new relationships
skills and knowledge.
5. YOU ARE
READY FOR ACTION
Using a coach can be the most effective means of translating
knowledge into practice. One of the most indispensable roles
of a coach is to help you use what you already know to make
effective choices and take the actions necessary to be
successful.
6. YOU ARE OPEN
TO MENTORING/SUPPORT
A Relationship Coach helps you to use your relationships to
evolve and develop relationship skills critical to your
business success and personal fulfillment. The process of
self-discovery, learning about relationships, and how to make
successful relationship choices cannot be effectively
self-taught or obtained from a book or tape.
7. YOU WANT
FULFILLMENT
You do not want to
settle for less or risk preventable failure, and you are
willing to give yourself the gift of the support and
technology needed to be successful.
8. YOU WANT TO
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF
A Relationship Coach
helps keep you honest with yourself, helps neutralize any
tendency you may have to settle for less than you really want,
is good for providing "reality checks" and being a sounding
board.
9. YOU WANT TO
BE PROACTIVE
A Relationship Coach helps you solve problems while they are
still small.
10. YOU WANT TO
GO BEYOND YOUR LIMITS
A Relationship Coach
holds your highest vision for you beyond your fears and
limitations, and helps you overcome your obstacles and
challenges.
11. YOU WANT TO
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
A Relationship Coach
helps you take responsibility for the quality of your
relationships so that you can create them the way you want.
12. YOU WANT TO
LIVE AUTHENTICALLY
Today's world is filled
with challenges to finding and staying on your highest path,
telling your truth, and making choices that are best for you.
A Relationship Coach helps you identify and live the life you
really want, and to be more of the person you really are and
want to be.
13. YOU WANT
BALANCE IN YOUR LIFE
Your life is filled
with opportunities and conflicting choices. You recognize the
importance of creating and maintaining balance in
relationships, including the ones you have with yourself and
your higher power.
14. YOU WANT
NEW POSSIBILITIES FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
You recognize that a
healthy relationship is growing and dynamic. One of the worst
things that can happen is to take one another or the
relationship for granted. Opening to new possibilities keeps a
good relationship getting better with the passage of time. A
Relationship Coach helps you to continually discover and
implement new and more fulfilling possibilities for your life
and relationships.
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CONTRIBUTED BY DAVID STEELE OF
THE RELATIONSHIP COACHING INSTITUTE |
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Professional Matchmaking
coming soon!
Perfect Pairings
Matchmaking is committed to the development of a community of
conscious, Oregon singles. It is our goal to introduce high
quality, likeminded, relationship-oriented singles, by
bringing together people who may otherwise never meet.
Please call
(503) 569-9709
to find out more about this
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